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15 Dec 2009

Living a full life after marriage.

Post by Kenneth Baskerville

Once in a way strange things happen in life. A couple can live together for a long time. Husband and wife doubtlessly adore each other. In outward appearance they are the perfect family. But really each of the mates deep in their heart has a sense that something is wrong. They are lonely. But they don’t want even to think about it cause it may mean that somewhere they have made a mistake.

And you may have reasons to think so. Possibly something is missing. Probably you miss your old friends. It happens more often than you may think. People get married and stop visiting their friends and even relatives. They decide that they don’t need anybody else but their spouse. If you spend all your time with your partner and if you have grand problems and common aims you forget about friends. You simply don’t have time for your friends couse you think about children, work, buying a car or paying bills. And in case your friends also married and lead the similar way of living your might understand that you are missing common talks. But the longer time you don’t communicate the harder it is to start conversing again. You haven’t seen each other for such a long time and now you simply don’t know what to talk about.

But one day people will want to have their friends and their own interests. They will need to talk with somebody except their family. And that mean that something is wrong with their husbands and wives. It just means that everyone needs to have his or her own personal space.

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At this moment one can start hesitating and asking questions. People start worring if their old friends would be excited to meet them again after such a long time. Another question might be if they still have anything in common with them. Years past and people change. Well anyway one will never get an answer otherwise he tries. Perhaps somebody wouln’t like to go back to the past and get a prod of his or her school years. But most of people are usually very excited to see their old fellows. The point is not to force the events. Friendship also needs time to recover.

And don’t forget that some of your old chaps will be really glad to make contact again. You understood each other so well back in the past and however many things have changed you are still the same as you have been a long time ago.

One more option is to find new friends. You also can do it. And don’t even allow yourself a thought that it’s practically impossible or very difficult at your age. You are older and more certain about your life preferences and interests. Now you can make friends with people with similar views and you will always have a topic for a conversation.

? Brave and use any choice to make friends or at least to find somebody with resembling views. Even if you don’t make good friends you won’t feel yourself so lonely and detached from other people. Nowadays everyone has enough ways for that. One of them is websites where you can meet new people and talk to them just from your house. You’ve got nothing to lose so don’t wait and start living full life! Actually you can start to do it right away.

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