A lot of Mariupol girls thought that the single opportunity to be contend in family life was to wed an outlander in the time of “Iron Curtain”. Nonetheless, when it collapsed leaning didn’t change. This happened as the stage of life didn’t increase after the fall down of the USSR as multitude of people expected. That is why continued wedding migration line was provoked by economical instability in the country.
They have driven it generally in the American direction: migration law of the United States, with all its inflexibility, is more tolerant to people, coming for a permanent living, than the European one. For the previous 12 years, according to the info of the United States Department of Justice, 75000 of big Ukrainian cities like Poltava Novosibirsk Mariupol Nikolaev Ekaterinburg ladies have migrated there by the fiancee visas. According to expert’s calculations, great number of ladies migrated by other sorts of visas, but eventually with the same goal.
Previously, American guys had intention to wed colored women, the fashion of the preceding decade for black girls, however, vanished as Russian girls were observed at the beauty competitions. Modern will of Americans to tie a knot with Russian ladies is provoked not only by their amazing beauty, but also their character, the principle feature of which is creating a reliable marriage. Russian ladies in their turn, started to perceive their beauty as the object of trade, which can aid them to achieve better prospect with a successful husband from western states.
Nowadays, when life in Russia became a little better than 12 years ago, the reason of ladies, travelling oversea in search of husband, has changed. According to the view of the executive director of the program of the social and psychological aid of Russian emigrant’s families, Olga Mahovskaya, the principle cause for the tendency of our compatriots to wed abroad – is a crisis of the household kind of family. However, despite of the reason, the bunch of problems, experiencing by Russian ladies oversea, is still even. The difference that was 12 years ago, as well as nowadays – is just in their intellectual level.
The primary obstacle for those, who wish to tie a knot with an outlander, is binded with marriage agencies. Director executive of the program of social and psychological support of Russian emigrant’s families, Olga Mahovskaya, mentioned by the edition “Izvestiya”, claims: at present over 600 Internet- agencies from the American side and around 200-from our country are specializing on the “Russian assortment”. The average age of Russian girls -is 19, 5 years, in other words, fiancees without studies and career travel in hunt of the better potential in far away states. It is pretty rational that the difficulty of marriage emigration is strictly binded with the problem of girls trafficking – it is possible to picture that youthful and inadequately educated ladies are not able to defend their rights, discovering themselves, oversea in the complex situation. Certainly, more frequently they escape, departing abroad, to make money as dancers or babysitters. But as Ms. Mahovskaya fairly stresses, “the wedding agent can be distinguished from the souteneur only for the reason that he is setting a woman not to be a hooker but a kept woman – and for a lot of girls it is a maximum of wishing”. But evidently it is easier to persuade those who dream like this.
Next essential difficulty that women may run into by travelling abroad is certainly – relationship with their future spouses. In compliance with the statistic big part of the males, wishing to marry Russian ladies are around forty years and nevertheless unable to buy a dwelling or to achieve something in life. They predominantly think that the ladies from such economically unfortunate country will not have big expectations and that is why will be perfect for the marriage. Alarming is the fact that more and more criminal events, which happen in America, and in other countries are connected with the abuse of the foreign brides. Some of them are beaten or even murdered. Such cases about unsuccessful marriage become often printed in the newspapers abroad by such countries, like America, and in Russian newspapers.
The agencies as a rule don’t notify clients who will to wed an outlander about the bad backdrop of men – because it is not profitable. In Washington State, for instance, recently has been accepted the law, under which the marriage agencies are forced to notify the probable brides in their native language that they possess a right to ask an authorized document regarding the fact of convictions and previous wedlock with the foreigners from their fiances particularly, for the reason of the criminal events, made against the fiancees – migrants, which occur more often.